this is it! this is really it is :D im already starting to save up for my purity ring so that i can have one by december :D usually, parents buy the ring for their children, but the tendency is, children wear the ring because their parents bought and imposed to them that they should wear one. but as for me, i want to be the one to save up and buy for it because it is the symbol of commitment to my parents, to God, and to my future partner that i will abstain from sexual immoralities until the day of my marriage. and i think i would be more convicted to live according to my ring if i myself worked for ^^
some people regard purity ring as abstinence to sex only but my ring will mean more than that. it'll mean i will not put my heart into a probable heart break situation. you see, many teenagers wear purity rings but fail to understand every angle of it. when God said "flee from sexual immoralities" He did not just mean sex. He means, flee from situations that will put you into a tempting situation; flee from unhealthy and un-secure relationships specially with the opposite sex; flee from dating games; flee from flirting and looking into the opposite sex lustfully.
i have been fighting for this passion and purity and i realize i have been keeping it to myself- which makes it hard at times because when placed in a crucial situation, i tend to deny this conviction i hold inside. i need people to respect my conviction, i need them to see that i have this belief that they may know, understand and respect it. this fight ill be fighting until the right one come along is curcial, i know, but with my heart to preserve my self, with my love for God, with my (soon to come) ring, it's going to be totally fun :)