Two, my friends got to like you. Let's say what other people think doesn't matter, but that's not true. It matters, and you know it. I need to know what my friends think of you. I don't want to be so lost in love with you but lose my friends in the process.
Three, I've got to love your friends, your friends got to like me. I can know more a whole lot about you with your friends. Tell me who your friends are, and I'll tell you who you are - I don't comply rely on it, but I believe there's truth to it. If you really want me to get to know you, introduce me to your friends.
Four, introduce me to your family. Seriously, that is like the sweetest thing :) If you do that, it'll makes me feel that you a real serious and mature guy who does not date just for the sake of dating. I want to get to know your dad, your mom, your sibling and even maybe the extended family :)
Five, show me your childhood pictures. It will make feel like you are welcoming me in your life, well not just for the future but allowing me to see your childhood pictures would make me feel like I was already part of it, way-way-waaaay before. You can go ahead and tell me your experience in the second grade when your crush dumped you or your weird hairstyle in high school that you actually loved. I want you to tell me, bodly and honestly who you were ans what you're meant to be :)
Six, go to church with me. You can never be the perfect guy until I see you worship, pray or disciple others. I do not care about what you have or how you look like, the only thing that would matter to is your heart and how much you love Jesus.
Seven, you must be willing to do random stuff with me. I am an extremely random person and I need you to be quick to respond when I get random. I am so random that when it pops out of my head I would just want to do it, and if you're the one who is always there and someone I can actually call when I get random, big chance is, you'll win my heart.
Eight, be a brother to me. I need you to also correct me and remind me and rebuke when needed. You're a man and you need to stand up to that. When you see me falling into destruction, pull me back up and help me stand again :) You are not just my lover nor friend nor partner, you are my brother in Christ and you owe me protection and guidance as a man :)